No Expectations

The most common mistake I see in relationships, is the same one I made.

We place so many expectations on our partners.

The desires beneath the expectations are not so bad, but the posture and process is all wrong.

When we place expectations on another we perpetuate the lack of the desired outcome.

We set ourselves up for disappointment and suffering.

We set our partners up to fail and never feel free, every time we attach our happiness to their behavior.

The key is not in laying down your standards or dreams, but rather in first embodying them.

We attract what we desire when we learn to take ownership of our life, our love, and all our circumstances.

Our job is not to wait for another to fulfill us, but to own and nurture our desires, wants, and needs.

We do this by becoming and living with our own intentionality.

You then authentically and organically invite your partner to join you.

Our relationships are no different energetically than any other area of our life.

They grow as we do.