His presence and your openness

Only when we stop trying to change our partners do we get to really enjoy them.

Only when we stop pointing the finger do we get the opportunity to invite them into the very thing we desire.

Only when we stop withholding our deepest truths, and most authentic and honest expressions do we finally get to be held, known, seen, loved, and adored the way we have longed for.

And all deserve to.

Our level of openness determines the level of depth they can meet us with. And their level of presence evokes greater openness in us.

This is the dance.

And this is meant to grow as the relationship does.

But for most of us, that have experienced pain either from within or before our union we create patterns of self protection, shutting down, withholding or flat out settling for the way things are- and we have to learn a new way of being.

A new way of showing up and relating.

We have to build trust in our hearts, bodies and in our union that allow us to open further, lean in, trust, surrender, and go deeper together.

This is where healing happens.

This is where the transformation begins.

And this is where our intimacy goes to the next level and things get blissfully fun and wildly liberating.

No matter where you are in your relationship there is always greater freedom to experience and greater love to know.

Because that is the nature of Love and God itself.

It’s our life’s greatest purpose and passion to experience more and more of this Love everyday.

And it’s our honor and pleasure to get to lead others into the same.