Influence

How do you decide who you want to be pouring into your life? How do you pick a coach, trainer, mentor, leader, friend?

I choose based on their fruit.

In the same way I wouldn’t hire a marriage mentor who was single, or a parenting mentor who didn’t have kids, or trainer who was not in shape, I would not hire a coach or take on a mentor who doesn’t embody the qualities I am going after in my life.

No one is perfect, but energy exchange is a real thing. We become like who we hang out with. Experience and fruit are everything.

People talk a lot, so watch what they do, how they live, and what they carry consistently over time.
Then decide who you want to be investing in your life.