What’s your sex life telling you about your intimacy?
our sex life is the ultimate expression of your love.
It is a window into the rest of your relationship.
A mirror of your intimacy.
What is it reflecting back to you?
Is it passionate?
Vibrant?
Dynamic?
Exciting?
Wild, fun, free?
Spontaneous?
Healing and nourishing to your body soul and spirit?
Intoxicating?
Exhilarating?
Ever evolving and awakening more of who you are?
Does it happen organically?
As the natural overflow of your connection?
Or is it occasional or nonexistent?
Mediocre?
Boring?
Always the same?
Out of duty?
Self-seeking?
Outcome focused?
Superficial?
Is it painful?
Are you guarded?
Do you hold back?
Do you withdraw?
Check out, or go somewhere else in your mind?
Or are you deeply present with one another?
Open.
Surrendered.
Do you show up fully?
What is missing?
What do you need more of?
What can you bring more of?
What do you desire to experience?
What does your partner desire?
Start by having this honest conversation with yourself.
Then bring it to your spouse.
Now how do you take steps toward bringing these discoveries and qualities into your day to day?
You can’t skip this part.
The quality of your intimacy will be the quality of your sex life.